Gear Trouble !!!!

[Nata]

Hello Everyone ,

  Its been about 6 days since i joined and started on this server. Made a Felk Seira now 154, and with difficulty managed to get 14x Honor Gem  gears.. The problem i am facing is,

1) Lack of friends or anyone, willing to explain or help

2) How do i manage with the gear upgrades from here on, since it requires a lot of gold leaf and honor gems for further upgrades. Plus not to forget High level Yuan 10,( weap and armor is 10) which isnt possible for a new player.


Also i heard that BG gear is what is needed for a felkin seira, since its low on hp and def. BG gear lvl 135 costs hella lot of courage , and further upgrades ( 14x ) costs STJ , which again isnt available in the green jade shop nor drops frequently even in Imperial citadel.

Hope someone would be kind  and compassionate enough to reply and help a new player on this server..